Unlearning is the highest form of learning.

– RUMI

How Gratitude Strengthens D/s Dynamics

Shelby Devlin 11/26/25 Shelby Devlin 11/26/25

How Gratitude Strengthens D/s Dynamics

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Dark Desires: Meeting the Shadow Self Through BDSM

Shelby Devlin 10/30/25 Shelby Devlin 10/30/25

Dark Desires: Meeting the Shadow Self Through BDSM

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What BDSM Can Teach Us About Emotional Intelligence

Shelby Devlin 9/24/25 Shelby Devlin 9/24/25

What BDSM Can Teach Us About Emotional Intelligence

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Subspace & the Neuroscience of Surrender

Shelby Devlin 8/22/25 Shelby Devlin 8/22/25

Subspace & the Neuroscience of Surrender

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How Healthy Power Dynamics Actually Work

Shelby Devlin 7/24/25 Shelby Devlin 7/24/25

How Healthy Power Dynamics Actually Work

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Healing & Kink

Shelby Devlin 6/24/25 Shelby Devlin 6/24/25

Healing & Kink

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Mind the Drop

Shelby Devlin 5/6/25 Shelby Devlin 5/6/25

Mind the Drop

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Why We Like It Rough (Sometimes)

Shelby Devlin 4/15/25 Shelby Devlin 4/15/25

Why We Like It Rough (Sometimes)

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When Someone You Love Isn’t Kinky

Shelby Devlin 3/20/25 Shelby Devlin 3/20/25

When Someone You Love Isn’t Kinky

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Romantic Dominance

Shelby Devlin 2/14/25 Shelby Devlin 2/14/25

Romantic Dominance

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Babygirl

Shelby Devlin 1/21/25 Shelby Devlin 1/21/25

Babygirl

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Tools of Dominance: Hard & Soft Power

Shelby Devlin 12/2/24 Shelby Devlin 12/2/24

Tools of Dominance: Hard & Soft Power

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Distinguishing BDSM from Assault

Shelby Devlin 10/18/24 Shelby Devlin 10/18/24

Distinguishing BDSM from Assault

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Overcoming Jealousy

Shelby Devlin 9/17/24 Shelby Devlin 9/17/24

Overcoming Jealousy

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The Alluring Femme Dom

Shelby Devlin 8/18/24 Shelby Devlin 8/18/24

The Alluring Femme Dom

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The Good, the Bad, and the Brat: A submissive’s motivation to surrender.

Shelby Devlin 7/30/24 Shelby Devlin 7/30/24

The Good, the Bad, and the Brat: A submissive’s motivation to surrender.

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The Gift of Dominance

Shelby Devlin 6/27/24 Shelby Devlin 6/27/24

The Gift of Dominance

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Cuckold & Hotwife Kinks

Shelby Devlin 5/28/24 Shelby Devlin 5/28/24

Cuckold & Hotwife Kinks

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Consensual Non-Consent

Shelby Devlin 4/22/24 Shelby Devlin 4/22/24

Consensual Non-Consent

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Sadomasochism: Everything You Need to Know and More

Shelby Devlin 3/26/24 Shelby Devlin 3/26/24

Sadomasochism: Everything You Need to Know and More

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